Couple Referee

Had a fight? 5 judges with different personalities each rule on it. They only take a side when the fault is genuinely clear.

ℹ️For the judges to actually read and rule on what you both wrote, your input is sent to an AI. It's never stored anywhere and is discarded right after judging. Your name is optional — please leave out anything that could identify you. This is for-fun reference content, not a real legal or psychological judgment.

First person, tell us what happenedWrite freely somewhere the other person can't see.

How do the 5 judges decide?

How it works

Each person writes their side and answers 6 multiple-choice questions. An AI reads that directly and rules from the perspective of 5 judges with different personalities. The Empathetic judge looks at who got hurt more; the Principled judge looks at whether a promise was broken and whether it's a repeat pattern. The Blunt judge only trusts what you admit to yourself, and the Reconciling judge cares less about fault than about what to do next. If there's no clear-cut fault, the judges won't force a side.

Why does each person write separately?

Because hearing only one side skews the ruling. What the first person writes stays hidden from the other, and when multiple-choice answers conflict, the tool trusts the side who admitted their own fault more.

What this doesn't do

This is for-fun reference content, not a legal or psychological judgment. Since it only works from what's written, any missing context isn't reflected. If there's physical threat or violence, it switches to support-resource guidance instead of ruling — that's not something to treat as fun. What you write is sent to an AI for judging and is not stored.

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